Learn to handle criticism - 1

Prophet Mohammed had a disciple called Ali. Ali was often the target of other disciples criticism. But Ali patiently bore it. Even when Ali was being criticized in front of other people he patiently bore it.

One day the others criticized Ali in the presence of the Master; for a long time Ali was patient and tolerant but finally Ali lost his cool and stood up to defend himself. His detractors kept silent, but at once Prophet Mohammed stood up and went away.

Ali followed the Master and asked him, "Master why did you go away when the others started criticizing me, and why did you not defend me?"

The Master said, "When you were silent I saw 10 angels standing behind you and protecting you; but when you started defending yourself the angels disappeared and so did I. The angels need not be real flesh and blood angels but virtues such as joy, patience, tolerance, forgiveness etc. When we practice these qualities there are good vibrations around us to protect us. And when you retaliate you show negative qualities such as revenge, hatred etc. It is not that only those who can defend themselves are strong. Does the criticism of others give me a license to criticize back, especially if I want to find God? Dont concern yourself with the flaws of others. Change others by changing yourself and by your example others will want to change."